AsianPersuasion
Saturday, September 20, 2003
Check this out:
Aoccdrnig to a rscheearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it deosn't mttaer inwaht oredr the ltteers in a wrod are, the olny iprmoetnt tihng is taht the frist and lsat ltteer be at the rghit pclae.The rset can be a total mses and you can sitll raed it wouthit porbelm. Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, butthe wrod as a wlohe.
amzanig huh?
Thursday, September 18, 2003
Boyfriend vs. Mobile Phone
Adjusting to life without a boyfriend is kinda like adjusting to life without a mobile phone. You don’t really NEED a mobile…but it’s a great comfort and luxury to have one. However…it’s difficult for us recognize how much we actually depend on something, until it’s completely taken away from your lives.
It's amazing realizing, after “the break-up”, how co-dependant you were in a relationship...shocking really...and you end up feeling like, how can I possibly go on living?! How did I ever survive before? How could I EVER get used to this? And depending on the relationship…some people can get that suffocating feeling of not being able to breath (panic attack) when imagining themselves without their partner…
This is the very reason why so many people get right back into relationships, as soon as they get OUT of them, only to find themselves repeating the same mistakes again. I think a considerable gap between serious relationships is important...in my head I know this is good...but the natural human reaction is to just grab the first "eligible bachelor"...(prince charming or not)...and fill up that empty space in our lives. But if one can manage it and muster up the courage to do it… the only thing that should be "filling" the emptiness is...YOU. People need be comfortable being single and independent…and not rely on others as an emotional crutch so-to-speak. Easier said than done, I know. Like it or not, this is the only way to ever attract a relationship which is healthy and NOT co-dependant.
